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Bucking the Entitlement Trend
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Is there such a thing as being in control when you're a mother?
Read MoreMotherhood During the Teen Years
An open letter to moms of teens on Mother's Day.
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An in-depth look at what factors may cause a teen to commit suicide.
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Having child who is depressed or suicidal is the frightening reality of too many parents today. However, there is hope...
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After the death of her oldest, Paulette helped her other children take steps toward finding their own path and moving...
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Read MoreHow to Talk with Your Adult Daughter about Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, and Same-Sex Attraction
Note: This article is intended to support and encourage parents of adult children only.
Read MoreTransgender Resources
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Read MoreLaura Perry Smalts’ Authentic Shift From Transgenderism To Embracing God’s Design
Becoming the Christian woman God created her to be was a long, hard, and confusing road for Laura.
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Instagram and Snapchat may seem harmless and fun, but they can be addicting and damaging for your teens, when these...
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Learning that your teenage daughter is having sex can likely leave you with more questions than answers. Following the initial...
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If you're a parent of teenagers, you've probably noticed a growing interest in your teen's desire to date. Where do...
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Even though pornography is everywhere, you can help your teen learn how to quit watching porn with these strategies.
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When fathers make intentional efforts to disciple and mentor their sons, they build strong relationships and encourage faith development.
Read MoreHow to Help Your Teen Get Closer to God
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Simple ways to celebrate Easter with your kids
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The foundation of a strong spiritual legacy can begin in the heart of the parent.
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When adult children deconstruct their Christianity, it can lead to isolation and self-centeredness as they prioritize their desires or preferences...
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To answer the question: Why does God allow suffering?, you and your children will need some logic, communication, and patience,...
Read MoreParenting Tips for Guiding Your Kids in the Digital Age
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Read MoreIs Grind Culture Grinding Your Teen Down?
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Read More10 Things You Need To Know About Bullying and Cyberbullying
No matter what form bullying or cyberbullying takes, it happens far too often and can have damaging effects.
Read MoreInstill Biblical Principles for Entertainment and Media Choices
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The purpose for having a phone contract is to make sure everyone in the family is on the same page...
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We can't always trust they are watching something wholesome.
Read MoreShould My Child Have Social Media?
"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it...
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Guiding Homeschooled Teen Boys – Monica Swanson
How To Teach My Child Boundaries In A Woke Culture? – Joe DallasHow Should My Child Respond To Pronouns? – Joe DallasIs My Teen Watching Pornography? – Blake BrinkmanHow Do I Talk To My Teen About Pornography? – Blake BrinkmanWhat Should I Do If My Teen Is Watching Pornography? – Blake Brinkman
How Do I Communicate Healthy Sexuality to my Teen? – Blake Brinkman
How Do I Talk To My Teen Daughter About Sexual Desire? – Blake Brinkman
What Boundaries Should I Use To Protect My Teen From Pornography? – Blake Brinkman
What Does Freedom & Limit Setting Look Like In Dating? – Dr. Ken Wilgus
How Do I Help My Depressed Teen? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Do I Explain Woke Culture To My Child? – Joe DallasHow Do I Talk To My Child About Transgenderism? – Joe DallasHow Should I Discipline My Teen? – Dr. Ken WilgusWhat Are Effective Consequences & Expectations For Teens? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Should I Talk To My Teen About Drugs & Alcohol? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Should I Talk To My Teen About Video Games? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Should I Talk To My Teen About Social Media? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Should I Talk To My Teen About Entertainment? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow & When Should I Talk To My Teen About Pornography? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Should I Talk To My Teen About Faith? – Dr. Ken WilgusPractical Tools For Single Parents Raising Teens – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Can I Improve Communication With My Teen? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Do I Foster Healthy Independence In My Teen? – Dr. Ken WilgusHow Can I Build Self Confidence In My Teen? – Dr. Ken WilgusAs A Dad How Do I Help My Teenage Daughter Grow Up Well? – Dr. Ken WilgusAs A Mom How Do I Help My Teenage Son Grow Up Well? – Dr. Ken Wilgus