What are Your Parenting Strengths?

The 7 Traits of Effective Parenting

This simple framework is your incredible invitation to being an effective mom or dad in daily family life — a parent who recognizes their imperfections and finds ways to thrive.

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Adaptability

Adaptability

Adaptability is being able to adjust to unexpected changes, different personalities, and endless demands in parenting. Parents strong in this trait help their child learn healthy ways to manage relational difference and life stress. These parents bring patience, awareness, and flexibility to parenting moments — seeking God’s peacefulness in the midst of chaos.
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Respect

Respect

Parents who are strong in this trait are self-controlled, self-aware, and life-giving (in words and actions). They have a strong belief that you first give and model what you expect. The Fruit of the Spirit is evident when practicing this trait
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Intentionality

Intentionality

Intentionality means to be present as a guide in the day-to-day and big moments of a child’s life. Parents who are strong in this trait show devotion to the relationship, resulting in connection and growth. They use their ongoing relationship with Christ to guide with wisdom each day.
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Love

Love

Steadfast love is the foundation for any strong parent-child relationship. Parents who are strong in this trait express love freely, unconditionally, and often. It’s the bedrock of a child’s relationships and development. It also helps point your child to the love of Christ.
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Boundaries

Boundaries

Boundaries are a vital part of healthy parent-child relationships. Parents who are strong in this trait have an innate desire for balance and self-control. They draw lines using discernment to help their kids find the same and learn to follow Jesus.
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Grace & Forgiveness

Grace & Forgiveness

Grace & Forgiveness are intrinsically connected, because when a child makes a mistake, it’s not enough to be gracious, but to wipe the slate clean. Parents who are strong in this trait recognize being approachable is key to instruction. Modeling this trait is essential for the health of the home and for understanding Jesus’ ministry.
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Gratitude

Gratitude

Gratitude is a posture of the mind rooted in perspective. Parents who are strong in this trait can cut through negative thoughts and find a thankful attitude and outlook centered on Christ. This outlook gives them an adaptive mind ready for communication and conflict resolution with their child. This trait helps model a steadfast faith and hope in Christ.
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This simple framework is an embraceable opportunity to be a more effective parent—one who leverages strengths and grows beyond imperfections.