After the “Family-moon”: Tips For Blended Families
Most couples in a second marriage could use some expert help right from the start. Counseling provides guidance and the kind of insight that’s often difficult to muster on your own.
Be intentional when blending families to smooth the process.
Say the words ideal blended family, and for many people, “The Brady Bunch” comes to mind. But in real marriages that include children from a previous union, you don’t create a successful family merger in tidy 30-minute installments.
A remarrying couple often fails to realize that they are far more excited about the union than their kids. For most children, Mom or Dad’s new marriage presents unwelcome challenges:
Here are some ways to smooth the process of blending families:
One final thought: The marriage relationship — blended or otherwise — takes priority over all others. So keep your marriage strong. That commitment is the foundation upon which you will create a harmonious community under your roof.
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