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Sex & Intimacy

A young couple embrace each other in a cornfield. Masturbation in marriage might be problematic if it sabotages intimacy.

Is Self-Stimulation in Marriage Wrong?

Sexuality in marriage is a complex journey of intimacy. There are times when self-stimulation fosters this intimacy and times when it destroy its. Author Juli Slattery looks at the difference between the two instances.

A man and a woman touch foreheads in a close, intimate moment in the park. Intimacy depends on how much we’re willing to reveal about ourselves beneath the surface. Here's how truth leads to intimacy with your spouse.

How Telling the Truth Leads to Intimacy With Your Spouse

Intimacy with your spouse means being completely open to them — emotionally, spiritually, and physically. This type of vulnerability comes with risk but one worth taking.

Is sex a need? A man and woman snuggle and laugh.

Is Sex a Need?

Sex is part of God’s design for marriage. But is it a need? Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley talk about sex, marriage, and desire.

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Christian Sex Advice for the Wedding Night and Beyond

The conflicts and disappointments you’ll encounter in marriage will have little to do with whether you married the wrong person. More likely they’ll reveal whether you’re willing for God to make you a great lover.

Photo of man and woman laying on the ground, each holding a paper heart over their chest, while paper hearts are sprinkled on them from above. They are happy because they have the secrets of healthy sex in their marriage.

5 Things Experts Wish You Knew about Healthy Sex in Marriage

Have hope. You can take steps to have healthy, God-honoring sex and intimacy in marriage.

Woman discouraged as response to husband's secret

Responding to Your Husband’s Secret: Porn

When you discover that your husband has been hiding a sexual sin like pornography, it will be difficult to hear — but I encourage you to allow your heart to fully grieve.

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Mommy Porn

Just as pornographic images have the potential to ruin a man’s ability to love in real life, so too, a written form of pornography has the potential to ruin a woman’s ability to love in real life.

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What if You Desire Sex More Than Your Husband Does?

Women who do not understand why their husband isn’t initiating sex can often personalize it and struggle emotionally.

Middle-aged couple in a loving embrace

Men’s Sex Drive After 50: What Wives Need to Know

Your husband’s sex drive changes as he ages, and illness can also affect it. But an encouraging wife can make a big difference.

A couple lying on the floor with coffee mugs, engaged in a relaxed yet thoughtful conversation, reflecting the openness required for discussions like, “Let’s talk about sex.”

Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby!

Marriage is designed to be a place of trust, security and commitment, and nowhere is this more critical than in the sexual relationship between husband and wife.

A couple celebrating how they have made it a goal in their marriage to make every situation a win-win situation by giving each other a high five on the couch.

Date Night With Your Spouse: A Win-Win Situation

When conflict arises in a thriving marriage, both partners win when they remember that, ultimately, they’re on the same team.

A husband and wife, with their faces hidden behind a large map, study their route in the mountains, embodying a “think outside the box” approach to exploration and discovery, especially when it comes to their date nights together.

Date Night With Your Spouse: Think Outside the Box

The way to stay excited about being together is to sprinkle in a judicious pinch of spice now and then.  It’s all about “getting outside the box” every once in a while.

A husband and wife sit on a park bench. The wife is holding a beautiful bouquet of flowers and leaning into her husband's shoulder, depicting authentic intimacy in their marriage.

Date Night With Your Spouse: Authentic Intimacy

Have you heard about the other way of writing the word “intimacy”?—”INTO ME, SEE.” There’s a valuable piece of marital wisdom embedded in this clever play on words.

Date Night With Your Spouse: Maximize the Mundane

How can a couple keep the fires of sexual passion alive in the middle of the humdrum, day-to-day routine of the average marriage? Believe it or not, this is a fairly common question. If it’s come up recently between you and your spouse, take heart. You’re not alone.

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Date Night With Your Spouse: Encourage Each Other

What is a marriage? It’s a question well worth pondering.

A close-up of a couple gently pressing their foreheads together, eyes closed, symbolizing unity in marriage and deep emotional and spiritual connection.

Date Night With Your Spouse: Pursuing Unity in Marriage

The parallel between romantic love and God’s relationship with His people is a theme that runs all the way through Scripture, and it has a great deal to teach us about the spiritual dimension of marriage.

A woman and a man enjoy an intimate moment by standing close to each other and gazing into each other's eyes. A healthy sex life isn’t about having more sex, it’s about having better sex. Here are four ways to improve your sex life in your marriage.

Five Ways to Have Better Sex

Sex is a gift God gave to husbands and wives, so why not learn how to enjoy it to the fullest?

A couple shares a playful moment, embodying how to bring humor into your marriage. The man smiles widely as the woman playfully leans on his back, both laughing together in a lighthearted and affectionate manner.

Bringing Humor Into Your Marriage

The more you laugh together, the more you love your spouse.

A couple sits together on a cozy couch, watching tv. They believe couples should live together before marriage.

Should Couples Live Together Before Marriage?

One of the biggest reasons why marriage is more successful than cohabitation is commitment.

A couple embraces intimately, their foreheads touching as they prepare to kiss, symbolizing vulnerability and connection in conversations about a partner’s sexual past.

How to Overcome Your Sexual Past and Have Deeper Intimacy With Your Spouse

Blended family marriages face unique stressors that can affect a couple’s sexual relationship. Here are five sexual pitfalls to avoid.